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As a beginner, there is a lot to consider in the BDSM scene. Rubberfashions Gay BDSM Guide wants to help you get started. What does BDSM mean? What frames are there? Which sex toys are recommended and suitable? Read it in our blog!

Are you curious about the world of BDSM and looking for a place to start this exciting adventure? Our Gay BDSM Guide will help you - from introducing you to the meaning of the term, to the rules and etiquette, to demystifying the sex toys used in these activities. Ease your journey with us! Are you new to the world of gay BDSM? Let us be your guide. Our BDSM for gays guide contains everything a beginner needs to know - from understanding the meaning of the term, to following the most important rules, to choosing the most appropriate sex toys. Now is the time to get informed so you can join in all the fun!

What does BDSM mean?

BDSM is a broad acronym that encompasses the concepts of bondage and discipline, dominance and submission, sadism and masochism. It encompasses a range of practices from playful spanking to intense hardcore activities such as bondage or gagging - all in pursuit of pleasurable experiences for those involved. If you're just starting out on this journey, it's best not to jump straight in at the deep end. Rather, take it slowly so that both participants can experience these new realms safely yet with fun!

Elementary BDSM rules for LGBT dating

In all forms of gay BDSM play, three rules are essential: one must acknowledge the inherent power dynamic in sexual acts; any activity must be consensual and accepted by both parties involved; and finally, a safeword should always be agreed upon to ensure the safety of the participants.

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Gay BDSM relationships offer a level of intensity and intimacy that many find satisfying in both short-term encounters and sustained arrangements. There is a special kind of 24/7 relationship where perversion also plays a role, allowing partners to explore each other's boundaries within the framework they have mutually agreed upon.

What types of gay BDSM play are there?

For those seeking an exciting adventure, BDSM games offer an intense form of exploration and discovery. From Christian Grey's iconic handcuffs to the thrill of ropes that bind you in surrender while your dominus takes control. Both partners benefit from alternating sensations that can range from pleasure to agony. There's something uniquely liberating about being tied up; call it freedom!

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Unleash your creative side with BDSM bondage games. Immerse yourself in the ancient Japanese tradition of shibari and take on the challenge of creating intricate rope constructions that must be able to be untangled quickly for safety reasons. Bondage is not a skill for beginners, but an art form that is honed through dedication, practice and expertise - an art that will give you lasting satisfaction as you push your limits both mentally and physically!

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Sex toys are a great way to spice up and explore your BDSM journey, even for beginners. A mouth gag is an effective way to silence the submissive while adding an extra layer of humiliation; ball gags in different materials and colours are another option. Ball gags in different materials and colours are another option. To take it a step further, leather strap harnesses are the perfect anchor point for bondage activities that will truly revolutionise play among gay couples. Here at our Rubberfashion Online Shop you will find your perfect sex toys in TOP quality. Take a look in the Toys section and discover articles with hose, gag toys, a large variety of mouth gags and cock rings and harnesses for your schwa** to learn chastity. Especially you will find red dildos in an exclusive design. Be sure to try them out! If you have any questions or uncertainties, our life coach and podcaster Jessy will be happy to help you. She can show you ways that were previously closed to you.

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From the subtle touch of a feather to firm strokes, such as anal sex, BDSM is a heady mix of pleasure and pain. Using instruments such as strap whips or paddles, dominants have unparalleled control over their submissives and ensure precision in every soulful stroke. Experiencing both sensations in harmony can leave those who dare with a deep sense of empowerment from this perverse rendezvous between sensation and discipline!

Chastity as a sign of surrender

Chastity accessories are new to the world of BDSM, and gay men often use them to explore their sexuality. Rather than giving themselves pleasure or climaxing immediately, they strive for longer periods of restraint, using chastity cages and belts that can heighten anticipation. Sometimes even for months at a time, dedicated to the chaste life. It's not just the physical pleasure that plays a big part, but the mental factor of total surrender.

Gay BDSM - A dark passion with a long history

With the cultural phenomenon of "Fifty Shades of Grey", BDSM has entered the modern discussion. However, it is not a new discovery. Its history goes back thousands of years to the Middle Ages, where powerful figures held "S&M sessions", though usually without the full consent of all involved. Marquis de Sade shocked the public in the 18th century with his provocative works and is considered the father of modern sadism and masochism. His influence is still evident today in many sexual practices practised by at least a quarter of the population worldwide.

What significant BDSM terms should you know?

BDSM is a tantalising and often misunderstood but safe form of play. Bondage means restriction of movement; collars are a common identifier for submissives. LLL stands for lacquer, leather or latex - clothing typically found in the BDSM sphere. In pet play, submissives take on various roles of animals such as cats or dogs. A safeword is a must in any game: use it when you need to signal 'mercy' immediately and something gets too much for you! For those seeking an intense experience with their partner, BDSM can provide the perfect mix of intensity and pleasure. This is where flagellation lies: flogging as a form of sexual punishment that can be carried out between partners who identify as either submissive (the passive role), dominant (the active role) or even both - known as 'switchers' in this practice. On the other hand, there are also those who are unfamiliar with these practices and are simply called "vanilla" because they have not yet engaged with what lies beyond traditional relationships.

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