Well, gentlemen, do you ever wonder what women truly find sexy about you? Is it your good looks, your cool style, or your latex pants? Or is it the latex briefs and fetish wear in passionate moments?
All of that might play a part, but a recent study shows that 95% of all women prefer a reliable and warm-hearted partner. Personality traits such as loyalty, emotional depth, and openness were also among the top attributes mentioned. Interestingly, a large majority of women also find independence in men very appealing.
What Do Women Find Sexy in Men?
Before you start worrying about a receding hairline or a little belly, keep in mind that for most women, that is not what matters. You do not need to be an Adonis. You do not need a chiseled body. You do not need a mountain of money either. None of that brings long-term happiness to you or your partner. In the end, inner qualities truly determine who we are attracted to and who we are not.
The most important thing is to be as natural as possible. Do not put on an act or pretend to be someone you are not. Women pick up on that quickly and will walk away. Sincerity toward yourself and others is one of the most critical factors. But what else is sexy?
What Makes a Man Attractive?
Jessy, our Rubberfashion lifestyle advisor, has put together her personal list of what makes a man attractive and what behaviors can win a woman over. Feel free to listen to her podcast, where she discusses this topic in detail and shares great tips to improve your dating game. With Jessy's advice, you will understand women much better and drastically reduce your chances of getting rejected.
1.) Blushing
We love noticing that we have an effect on a man and seeing him blush around us. It flatters us and makes our hearts beat faster. There is no need to feel embarrassed about blushing; we are not looking for show-offs, but rather men who show genuine vulnerability in our presence.
2.) Acknowledging Your Insecurities
Do you run your hand nervously through your hair or adjust your cuffs for the third time, worrying your date will find it awkward? Not at all; quite the opposite. When a woman realizes she gives you butterflies in a sweet way, it is endearing and makes our hearts melt. Women appreciate men who own their nervousness rather than hiding or overcompensating for it. And secretly, we are just as nervous on a date as you are.
3.) Embracing Flaws with Humor
Did you stumble over your words, stutter a bit, or notice a spot on your jacket? No problem at all; just own it and handle it with a sense of humor. That lightens the mood before things get stiff. Women love men who can laugh at their little mishaps and admit mistakes. It instantly makes you relatable and charming.
4.) Making and Holding Eye Contact
Gentlemen, this is not just a cliché! We love it when you look us in the eyes with genuine admiration. Holding our gaze without immediately looking away shows confidence and presence. The eyes truly are the window to the soul.
Do not close yourself off; let us catch a glimpse of what you are feeling. Just be mindful not to stare without blinking or looking away at all. That quickly becomes uncomfortable, and it will hurt your chances of getting to know her better.
5.) Asking About Her Day
First things first: this does not mean interrogating her or asking for her entire life story after two text messages or on a first date. But we appreciate thoughtful, genuine questions about our day and how we are feeling. These questions should NOT be about sex or include suggestive remarks.
Skip things like "Hey sweetie, what did you do today? Did you try out that new latex sex toy?" Instead, try "Hey, how was work today? Did you have a good day without too much stress, or is there anything on your mind you want to talk about?" That is how you spark real interest and make her think about you in a positive light.
6.) Giving Thoughtful Attention
Few things mean more to us than genuine attention in the form of sweet messages, listening closely, making time to talk, or picking up the phone. A bouquet of flowers or a nice gift is always lovely, but you reach our heart by sharing your time and including us in your daily life. A quick selfie, a photo of what you are working on, a funny joke, or a thoughtful video goes a long way.
That is how you win a woman over. Courting a woman who is interested in you never loses its charm. You do not need to message constantly or become overbearing, but disappearing for a week without an explanation will quickly cool her interest in dating you.
7.) Offering a Helping Hand
Chivalry has not gone out of style, even if it sometimes feels that way. Offering help does not conflict with female independence; the two go together naturally without any need for a battle of the sexes. It is about small, helpful gestures rather than grand material purchases.
A link that helps solve a practical problem, an address or contact that might help, or introducing someone who can offer advice: these small efforts make a lasting impression. Women remember who was there for them when things were stressful and helped take a weight off their shoulders.
Attractive Qualities in a Man
These tips from Jessy highlight what truly catches a woman's interest and what we find attractive in men. Just remember: while we enjoy watching actors in movies, we do not want someone putting on an act in real life or on social media.
Always stay honest, sincere, and natural. Being yourself makes you come across as authentic, appealing, and attractive. Women do not want to be led on or deal with manipulative games, just as you would not want that for yourself.
