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Ratgeber: Wie praktiziere ich Crossdressing richtig?

Guide: How do I practice crossdressing properly?


Best tips on crossdressing from life coach Jessy!


Crossdressing, also known as transvestism, refers to wearing clothing, makeup, and accessories typically assigned to the opposite sex. It can be performed as a form of self-expression, as an expression of gender identity, or as sexual fetishism. If you're interested in practicing crossdressing but don't know where to start, here are some tips that may help.


  • Identify your reasons : Before you start crossdressing, it's important to understand your reasons. Do you see it as an expression of gender identity or a sexual fetish? Identify your motivation to better understand what you want to achieve.

  • Choose Appropriate Clothing : If you're just starting out, it can help to start with simple pieces like skirts, dresses, or jewelry. These garments are often easier to wear and easier to combine with your normal everyday look. If you're ready, you can also experiment with wearing wigs or shoes.

  • Practice makeup techniques : Makeup is an important part of crossdressing. Start with simple techniques like applying lipstick or mascara and slowly work your way up to more elaborate techniques like contouring or eye makeup. There are many tutorials and guides online that can help you learn these skills.

  • Explore Your Gender Identity : Crossdressing can be an expression of gender identity. If you feel unsure about this, seek support from friends, family, or professional advisors. It is important to feel comfortable in your body and to explore your own identity.

  • Connect with the community : There is a large and supportive crossdressing community online and offline. Look for forums, groups or events in your area to connect with other like-minded people and find support.

  • Be Safe : When you're crossdressing in public, it's important to be safe. Look for places where you feel comfortable and that support you. Avoid being alone or in places that are unsafe. It's also important to know what laws in your area pertain to crossdressing.

  • Start slow : If you're trying crossdressing for the first time, start slow and work your way up. Start with a simple outfit, then gradually add accessories and makeup as you feel more confident inside. This gives you time to get used to the feeling and make sure you are comfortable.

  • Explore Your Limits : Knowing and respecting your limits is important. If you feel like you've gone too far or that you're uncomfortable, you should stop immediately. Crossdressing should be fun and make you happy and not a show for others in this context. So only do what feels good.

  • Have Fun : Crossdressing can be a fun and creative way to express your personality. Have fun experimenting with different looks and clothing items. It's a great way to discover and express your own individuality.

  • Crossdressing can be a great way to express your gender identity or just to fulfill your sexual fantasies. Overall, crossdressing is a personal choice influenced by many different factors. If you're interested in practicing crossdressing, remember to understand your reasons for being safe and having fun. It's about you, not about others. Become aware of this and stand by yourself and your needs.

    If you are looking for personal and in-depth advice on this or other topics of sexuality or life, you are welcome to send me a message at: jessy@rubberfashion.de . You are welcome to comment on our guide and tell us your opinion and experiences. Thanks very much!

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